A real man – hmmm? What do you think makes a real man? Sex never made any boy a man…a father maybe, but not a man. So…have you had sex? Are you the father? Then be a real man and “step up to the plate!” You forgot that one of the top 5 reasons not to have sex is that you might become a father, and now, she’s a mother. Whether you are ready for the responsibilities that go along with the privilege of being a father or not, you are there, and life has changed. Let’s look at it as a change for the better, though, because you can be a “real man” and do what’s right.
First of all, be her “knight in shining armor.” Since you are a big reason why she’s pregnant, do your part by helping to make her pregnancy as easy as possible. Encourage her to get the support she needs. Encourage her to take care of herself and the baby. After all, this is your child, too. Life Choices knows what each of you is going through and wants to help with all your concerns. That’s why we are here – to help you be the best mom and dad possible whether you are together or apart.
As you consider your role as a man and a father, there will be many decisions you will have to make:
- Should you share financial and parenting responsibilities?
- Should you and the birthmother marry?
- Should you sign the release form so a loving family can adopt your baby?
- Do you want to be a part of your child’s life?
Life Choices can help you look at the future and make a plan – a plan that you can live with. Fathers play a very important role in their children’s lives. You can either impact their future with hope or with sadness. Much of his/her future will be shaped by you. The choice is yours. Choose to be involved in your child’s life. Wow! The possibilities of being a “real man” are waiting on you!
For a free and confidential appointment, call the Life Choices 24-Hour Helpline – 901-388-6262.